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Premature Ejaculation

 

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Surprise! Premature Ejaculation, or Rapid Ejaculation as it is often referred to now, is actually the number one male sexual concern. It trumps Erectile Dysfunction (ED) for the number one spot, with an estimated 30% of men complaining of significant Premature Ejaculation (Rapid Ejaculation), and many more experiencing the problem from time to time. Often though, Erectile Dysfunction and Premature Ejaculation occur together.

Definition of Premature Ejaculation

Premature Ejaculation or Rapid Ejaculation can be partially defined as ejaculation which is uncontrolled, and occurs with minimal stimulation. In heterosexual couples this is ejaculation occurring either before, during, or shortly after penetration. The other part of the definition of Premature Ejaculation is that the ejaculation occurs before the man wishes, and that this creates emotional distress.

How fast is too fast? There is no appropriate answer based on watching the clock. If you feel stressed about Premature Ejaculation before sex, and feel ashamed or depressed immediately after, then it is likely that you and your partner are suffering from this condition. If you sense that your partner feels let down, then this will worsen your situation.

Premature Ejaculation Treatment (or Rapid Ejaculation Treatment) is a complex process. At Ontario Men's Health clinic, we believe that the approach needs to include changing behaviours as well as expectations. We prescribe behavioral exercises for couples to do during sex, and exercises men can do on their own. We often supplement these Premature Ejaculation Exercises with medications when needed. Some medicines actually delay orgasm and can help to improve things quickly while the couple goes through the process of the Premature Ejaculation Exercises to improve the situation long term.

Facilitating a better quality and longer lasting erection often helps make Premature Ejaculation Treatment more effective.

The physicians and support counselors at Ontario Men's Health understand well the impact this problem has on men and couples, and will work with you diligently to improve your situation by providing expert Premature Ejaculation Treatment at the Toronto clinic

 


All my life I had virtually no control over my ejaculation. Even just kissing my girlfriend I would sometimes ejaculate. It was so humiliating that I didn't ask girls out, and even would turn down dates or invitations to parties. There was definitely something wrong, but it seemed out of my control. I finally swallowed my pride and went to my doctor and then to a therapist. I was relieved to find out that Premature Ejaculation was quite common. With some treatment and with help learning to relax and focus I was able to make things so much better. It was about much more than sex. It was about becoming a confident, social citizen again.

I know that sex is supposed to be one of the most enjoyable parts of life, but I always found it stressful. Usually I would ejaculate just as my wife and I were getting started. After awhile I wasn't even getting good erections. My wife always smiled and did her best to make me feel that it didn't matter, but I could sense disappointment. I tried to achieve more at work to make up the difference. I finally got up the nerve to see a doctor after reading something in a magazine. I had it all wrong. With some simple treatment and practice, things have improved dramatically for my wife and I. Now we are both smiling.