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Ontario Men's Health
3200 Dufferin St.
Suite 402
Toronto, ON
M6A 3B2

Phone: 416-512-6367
Fax: 416-512-6361
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Sexual Health

"Do I have a Sexual Problem?"
Only you can answer this question. Don't listen to your friends. Don't base your perceptions of "normal" on television shows, movies, or articles in men's magazines. Certainly don't compare yourself to the porn stars. You will have a major complex.

Don't worry about "size". Life has enough stresses.

The only important questions are: Am I happy? Is my partner happy?

If the answers to the above are "yes" and "yes", then consider yourself cured. When both parties in a relationship are satisfied with their sex lives, then we believe that things are perfect, and questions such as "how fast?" or "how big?" are irrelevant. The only issue that matters is satisfaction. Though we would love to meet you, we have to admit that you likely don't need our services.

If, however, after having sex you tend to feel let down, ashamed, embarrassed or angry with yourself, then you should be trying to improve your situation. Your partner, no matter how supportive, will certainly suffer along with you, mostly through your reaction to the situation. If you find that you would rather avoid sex in order to save yourself the emotional fallout, then your relationship is certainly suffering.

If you sense your partner is disappointed with your sex life, then make an effort to talk about their feelings more openly, so you can more effectively seek the best help both for yourself, and for your relationship.


I know that sex is supposed to be one of the most enjoyable parts of life, but I always found it stressful. Usually I would ejaculate just as my wife and I were getting started. After awhile I wasn't even getting good erections. My wife always smiled and did her best to make me feel that it didn't matter, but I could sense disappointment. I tried to achieve more at work to make up the difference. I finally got up the nerve to see a doctor after reading something in a magazine. I had it all wrong. With some simple treatment and practice, things have improved dramatically for my wife and I. Now we are both smiling.

My wife and I were getting along OK, but we had slipped into a routine of avoiding sex because it was awkward for both of us when I couldn't perform. We just put it down to age and moved on. One day I just decided to look into it further, and let me tell you, don't let anyone tell you that you need to give up sex just because of your age. Our life is much more complete now than it has been in years. Get help today. My wife and I are so glad we did.